Can you elaborate on how cascaded deletions "stop the world" with reference counting? I understand how GC could lead to arbitrarily large latencies for whatever task triggers that kind of cascaded deletions, but as I understand it, "stop the world" usually means that no threads are allowed to execute application code.
Imagine a graph or tree data structure where the deletion of a node causes a cascade deletion of all child nodes, which also causes a deletion of their children and so on.
This is proportional to the data structure being deleted.
Unless you use techniques to move the deletion into background threads, e.g. C++/WinRT with COM AddRef/Release, the thread will be "blocked" doing busy work cleaning all those nodes, running the cleanup code (destructors, deinit, whatever), node after node.