I think your description is technically accurate, but maybe this phrases it better:
std::vector<bool> is a perfectly nice growable bit array type, and if the exact same code were in the C++ standard library named std::growable_bit_array nobody would be annoyed about this type, some people would use it, others would ignore it, nobody would write epic rants about it or name it the singe worst thing about C++.
The problem is that C++ popularized generics, and std::vector<T> is a generic growable array type, you ask for a std::vector<Goose> you get a growable array of your custom Goose type, great idea, very popular these days -- yet std::vector<bool> is not a generic growable array of bool, it's this other thing instead that's similar but not quite similar enough to be a drop-in replacement.
In C++ there is no way for the specialization to be bit-based without it being apparent that you are not in fact getting a growable array of the bool type.