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CooCooCaCha • yesterday at 5:33 PM • 3 replies • view on HN

I don’t think it’s as simple as that. It seems like people are increasingly exhausted and disillusioned with life.

What you seem to be implying is people are lazy and choosing TikTok over real relationships. But I also think people choose TikTok because it’s low effort and they don’t have much gas left in the tank.


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legitster • yesterday at 7:34 PM

> It seems like people are increasingly exhausted and disillusioned with life.

Is life today bleaker or harder than it was during the Great Depression? People still made time for each other.

What if it is the media that is making people exhausted and disillusioned? Not the other way around.

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mrweasel • yesterday at 5:49 PM

> It seems like people are increasingly exhausted and disillusioned with life.

The interesting part is what causes what. Are people exhausted and disillusioned because they aren't experience life the same way as previously, or aren't they having these experiences because they are exhausted and disillusioned.

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chneu • yesterday at 5:58 PM

>seems like people are increasingly exhausted and disillusioned with life.

Counterpoint, people are TOLD and CONVINCED that they are exhausted and that life is way harder than it is.

Capitalism loves someone who is "too busy" to make stuff or avoid buying stuff.

Our lives are all about reducing friction and making everything easier.

Relative to 20-30 years ago we are so lucky and privileged. It's nuts how the victim mindset has spread.

I've lived all over the place and one thing I've seem priliferate is this mindset of "I'm a victim, doing this is too hard, so I just won't for X and Y reasons" while folks order Uber eats.

The baseline for what is acceptable has dropped so, so far. And I'm sure people will reply saying I just don't get it. Lol.

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