When my dad does this it’s mortifying

When I do it though it’s very cool and fun!

Of course I don’t call women “girl” or try to order in languages I don’t speak

Someone commented once about the Trader Joe’s people always flirting with everyone, and a) that’s probably true but b) is just being nice to random people these days so intimate and invasive that it’s equivalent to getting hit on? That would explain people cringing