Your math explanation starts with a math concept that the vast, vast, vast majority of people will have never even heard of, even in math-adjacent fields. It's not anti-math reasoning. It's a lack of self-awareness that your background is very math heavy, which makes that particular explanation make sense to you. I've gone my entire schooling, as a student who was always one of the few who were "good at math", all the the way through my CS education, without ever having heard of a functor until I came across the Haskell monad explanation meme.

Your next step could be to blame the school systems if you want, but that doesn't help the situation at hand.

FWIW I dropped out of high school to pursue programming more directly. I regret it now because of the job market crash, but it's also too late for me to go back.