:D Friend, allow me to make light of this conversation for the benefit of all.
I am sure that you are familiar with an expression of being hit by lightning indicating some relatively low chance of an event[1]. Now, imagine walking around with a rather conductive flagpole everywhere you go, do you think you would up or lower your odds ( edit: for a lightning to strike ).
Maybe it is true that I don't discuss statistics the way you do. After all, I merely apply them to real life.
But then again, I don't walk around during thunderstorm waiting to be struck.
In other words, you are wrong. Individual actions affecting chance are very much relevant to discussion about statistics.