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vigilantpuma • yesterday at 11:01 PM • 2 replies • view on HN

This really feels like splitting hairs.

As a woman in this industry, being told that using “guys” to address mixed groups is non-inclusive/insufficiently considerate/worth thinking less of me for (just wow) is much worse than being addressed by “guys” when I’m in a mixed group.

Like… we have real problems with equality in tech, right?


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jeromegv • yesterday at 11:13 PM

Yes we have real problems, and this one isn't and it takes 1 minute to solve. "Okay thank you, will change it for next time".

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buuyytp • yesterday at 11:24 PM

I'm glad for you it doesn't feel exclusive. Your experience is totally valid and also you are correct, there are structural issues at play that also need addressing.

Other folks, myself included, do feel excluded by "guys" as a gender neutral term. I'm not offended, but I do appreciate when people offer something else.

But to your later point, I don't think it's either/or. We can do both.

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