People are down voting you for this, but like, I'd rather have that honesty. I know where I stand with you when you do that.

Everyone is out here thinking I'm policing, correcting, eradicating, or some other verbing. When really I'm asking you to inconvenience yourself to stop inconveniencing me.

You are well within your rights to be like, "no". I don't understand this compulsion to make either party into some villain.