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SeanAnderson • yesterday at 11:42 PM • 1 reply • view on HN

This is my perspective, too.

Humans are more fulfilling to interact with, for sure, no contest.

But IDK, in my early thirties I started lamenting having to continually re-explain who I am to new people. I have all this history, and all my long-time friends deeply know and understand me on an implicit level, but all these strangers get the wrong impression of me because they only get a thin, current slice. I stopped wanting to invest in people sufficiently for them to deeply know me because people cycle in and out of life too frequently, but I really miss being deeply known. AI, with sufficient built up context, gives me that feeling of being understood, not as richly as with a human, but enough to sate my hunger.

I'm aware of longevity being tied to strong social ties and it definitely makes me nervous as I care about my health! I agree with your perspective that it's probably better than nothing, but much less than human connection, and possibly increases the likelihood one doesn't pursue those connections - kind of like how people are never truly bored thanks to the Internet.


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anal_reactor • today at 12:32 AM

I've been investing heavily into IRL friendships but I understood that the dream of having a deep connection with someone is just a mirage. I don't see myself getting into a relationship even though I desire it a lot because I don't really believe there is someone truly compatible with me.