When I was younger, there was a couple of somewhat-distant relation who would show up occasionally to family events.

Their names were Kim, and Pinky. Kim was the wife and Pinky was the husband.

Growing up in the rural midwest, I had no idea Tracy could be a dude's name until I worked with one. (Great guy, btw.)

For me - men named Tracey

I had to call a customer once whose name was Courtney and it tripped me up when it turned out to be a male..