There is no 'game'. We're not trying to win or rule the world. Just to live our lives in peace.
That part about not trying to win or rule the world makes sense, but to live in peace, on has to have the basic ability to defend oneself, which doesn't seem to exist because the EU chooses to spend money in other domaints.
You may not think there's a game, but both Putin and Xi are playing one. You may want to live in peace, but they may not give you the option.
That's the problem. When you don't raise a military (for example) you get conquered by someone who did and the same principle is true in economic warfare. Look at France, the government can't afford schools because it gave so much money to American billionaires, without using the same strategies to extract the same amount of money back from America.