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avazhi • yesterday at 11:06 PM • 5 replies • view on HN

I agree the corruption and conflict of interest stuff is the real issue here and is serious. I’m just criticising the hand-wringing over him banging some random woman (or women, as it apparently turns out), as if that is some unprecedented or shocking behaviour or worthy of a reprimand on its own. Most of the world left that prudish shit behind in the ‘90s.


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dofm • yesterday at 11:15 PM

I think marital infidelity is shitty behaviour but I also think the main issue here is that this man in this job with this global significance thought this woman was safe to be involved with.

His board must think he's a lunatic. They have every right to know if he's having an affair with anyone (because marital infidelity is a personal corruption issue that is rarely not a problem when it's a CEO, since carrying off an affair usually involves suborning staff in some way). But this? Madness.

JumpCrisscross • yesterday at 11:07 PM

> the hand-wringing over him banging some random woman

I don't care about it. But I do understand folks who are dismayed to see someone who many of us–myself included–saw as a bit of a paragon until a few weeks ago turning out to be a total shithead.

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lenerdenator • yesterday at 11:21 PM

I don’t think it’s necessarily prudish, but in order to accurately judge it you need to know if someone’s ENM or not, and that’s more than most people make known about their personal lives.

Stepping outside of your marriage behind your spouse’s back is still scummy behavior.

ml-anon • yesterday at 11:30 PM

"some random woman" who happen to be a) a foreign spy and b) a direct report. You absolute moron.

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adksjghkjd • yesterday at 11:26 PM

"random women"

one was a direct report, one was a spy