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MichaelZuo • today at 6:14 PM • 1 reply • view on HN

Yeah, if they refuse then that is also a signal about how much they truly value you (and not an insignificant one either).


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andsoitis • today at 6:17 PM

If someone refuses, then you can frame that it limits candor and vulnerability. If they still prefer to have it on, then you can simply be less open with them.