I've found this helpful for getting along with family who I know wouldn't like certain aspects of my life but for whom going no-contact is more trouble than it's worth.

"How's your job?" "About the same. Still just working with computers."

"Any girls in your life?" "Nah not really. Hard to meet people these days."

"What kind of music do you listen to?" "Whatever they play on the radio I guess"

"You go to church?" "When I can"

"Who are you voting for?" "I haven't thought about it too much. Who are you voting for?"

Answer the question but reveal nothing and they have nothing to pry at. Worst case, turn it around and let them talk about themselves for awhile. Throw in a "Uh huh," "Oh man," and "I'd never thought about it like that" every few minutes until it's time to go.