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nixon_why69 • today at 2:37 PM • 2 replies • view on HN

You're making a lot of assumptions about a relationship you weren't a part of, here.

They were together since early college, she sacrificed her career to support him (his words). Nobody's obligated to stay in a relationship if they're unhappy but cheating with multiple people is wrong.


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Kevin_Flynn • today at 2:43 PM

> You're making a lot of assumptions about a relationship you weren't a part of, here.

My comments were clearly hypotheticals based on observation of non-related couples.

"Endless" and "unknowable" being attributes of my perception, containing far less signal than one from an inner circle.

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win311fwg • today at 2:43 PM

> but cheating with multiple people is wrong.

Of course without being able to fill in the assumptions about the relationship we cannot know if cheating occurred or not.

Cheating requires one to gain an unfair advantage in a relationship. Simply having sex with someone else does not automatically give an unfair advantage.

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