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wiseowisetoday at 2:07 PM5 repliesview on HN

> Too much psychology talk in every day life

I'm curious to hear how often do you hear it in every day life outside of the internet.


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tossandthrowtoday at 2:12 PM

In all fairness, the internet is for many people a near 100% part of their life.

Especially for people working remotely without a family.

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sho_hntoday at 2:18 PM

It definitely does feel like every American I know "has a therapist", sometimes.

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Fluorescencetoday at 3:45 PM

Probably not what the parent is referring to, but there is 'therapy speak' and similar phenomena where a pop-sci bowdlerisation of professional practices or scientific theories become absorbed into the culture and change the way we express ourselves.

There is pathologisation which can be whimsical e.g. tidying/organising becomes OCD, studying becomes autistic or exaggerative e.g. sadness becoming depression, a bad experience becoming trauma or in order condemn e.g a political policy becomes sociopathic.

There is the way 'therapy speak' spills over into daily life e.g. your use of the work-kitchen must respect boundaries, leaving the milk out is triggering, the biscuits are my self-care etc.

There is also 'neuroscience speak' where people express their emotions in terms of neurotransmitters e.g. motivation and stimulation becomes 'dopamine', happiness and love become 'serotonin', stress becomes 'cortisol' etc.

It's just the way language and culture works and it now pulls more from science than myth and religion. New language might just be replacing older bowdlerisations e.g. hysteria. In the 'therapy-speak' cases, it's interesting how it often replaces more moralistic language and assertions about values that used be described in terms of manners, civility, respectability etc.

walthamstowtoday at 3:12 PM

At work, like all the time? Empowerment, values, growth mindset, psychological safety, mindfulness, emotional intelligence...

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