I'm still trying to put all the pieces together, but https://digipres.club/@discatte/115588660312186707 sure paints Adafruit as the bad party here, though I'm open to information which shows otherwise to understand better.
People seem to throw the words "doxxing" and "harassing" very lightly these days, if you ask me, although I'll give that nobody in this whole mess seems to be capable of calm or even non-violent communication.
Reading this, it looks like everyone needs a break.
This whole thing just seems like two terrible people being terrible to each other and both vying for sympathy to be the less terrible person in this.
That looks like the usual social media victim style posting.
This adds some more context I guess https://chaos.social/@North/115605819126197877
Honestly the whole thing seems like everyone overreacting on both sides. Accusing someone is "doxing" because they used your first name?