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brushfoottoday at 2:02 PM5 repliesview on HN

What an unpleasant attitude. People have emotions. If they're apologizing, maybe they feel bad. Accept it and get on with your day. A punctilious email etiquette isn't going to improve anything.


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jjicetoday at 2:42 PM

I don't know, it seems pretty light-hearted. If they sent this directly to someone in response to an email, then I may agree, but since it's more of just an opinion blog piece, I find this to be a good outlet for thoughts to share without really impacting anyone.

bluebarbettoday at 2:57 PM

The author does not seem to be advocating in favor of punctilious etiquette so much as simply getting the point.

10729287today at 2:55 PM

Well, to be honest, for a lot of people, apologizing for late answer is more a social convention or a reflex than real apologies.

The same for : "How are you ?", "I hope this email finds you well" or worse than everything, Emails Greetings embedded into the signature.

falcor84today at 2:31 PM

I actually really liked the post. I'm often prone to apologizing, thinking that it's a social expectation, and the post made me smile and relax a bit, thinking to myself "oh, maybe it's not that important, and it'll be ok if I don't".

j45today at 2:31 PM

Responding too quickly to emails is the same as responding too quickly to IMs, it will often invite more responding.

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