> Especially since women have largely abandoned their traditional duties and still kinda expect men to hold their end of the bargain.
As far as I see, women still birth and raise children and take care of most of the household; they just also work in the addition. Don't know what you're talking about.
Birth rates among liberal women in almost all developed societies suggest otherwise. Women are doing double duty and doing both badly. Women are relatively and absolutely less happier than they were 50 years ago. So I'm having hard time believing that this new norm is a win for anyone.