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Online age verification is the hill to die on

649 pointsby Cider9986today at 3:49 PM419 commentsview on HN

https://xcancel.com/GlennMeder/status/2049088498163216560


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Bendertoday at 4:22 PM

The one and only method I will participate in is server operators setting a RTA header [1] for URL's that may contain adult or user-generated or user-contributed content and the clients having the option to detect that header and trigger parental controls if they are enabled by the device owner. That should suffice to protect most small children. Teens will always get around anything anyone implements as they are already doing. RTA headers are not perfect, nothing is nor ever will be but there is absolutely no tracking or leaking data involved. Governments could easily hire contractors to scan sites for the lack of that header and fine sites not participating into oblivion.

I a small server operator and a client of the internet will not participate in any other methods period, full-stop. Make simple logical and rational laws around RTA headers and I will participate. Many sites already voluntarily add this header. It is trivial to implement. Many questions and a lengthy discussion occurred here [1]. I doubt my little private and semi-private sites would be noticed but one day it may come to that at which point it's back into semi-private Tinc open source VPN meshes for my friends and I.

[1] - https://news.ycombinator.com/item?id=46152074

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ronsortoday at 5:14 PM

There's an angle everyone misses.

Mandatory age surveillance everywhere is only going to result in massive, normalized ID fraud. You thought fake and stolen IDs were a problem before? You haven't seen anything yet.

And half of it will be from adults trying to avoid privacy invasion.

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Nevermarktoday at 9:39 PM

This is why we need verification technology that protects identity. Implemented as anonymous verification, without distinguishing between adult age, or permissioned by parent.

That solution doesn't negate parental freedom of choice, it facilitates it.

I am baffled at how often the "they don't want it, because of their ulterior surveillance motivations, therefore it isn't a solution" argument is made. "They" don't want it because it is a solution to the nominal problem, that they cannot abuse, and would negate their ability to use it as a cover with a large well-meaning voting constituency.

Two problems, nominal and ulterior, resolved in the right way by one solution.

When a nominally sensible problem is used as a cover for overreach, solving the nominal problem in a healthy way is the best offense. The alternative is an endless war of attrition, and the "hope" that politicians resist the efforts of well-paid lobbyists and tens of millions of well-meaning voting parents forever. That is a ridiculous strategy, doomed to fail, delivering irreversible damage. As is already evident by the abusable laws that are accumulating.

I worry at the lack of political acumen and foot-gun reflexes in the ethically-motivated technical community.

Stop endlessly fighting to lose less. Just play the winning move already. Stop the irreversible damage.

cooper_gangliatoday at 6:22 PM

THe government shouldn't be raising anyone's children, that's what parents are for. If you're a bad parent, your kids will get access to bad things and could become an adult failure.

The future of your family and your legacy is up to you, not the government. We don't need age verification to restrict the social darwinism of raising children.

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goda90today at 4:39 PM

Age verification can be achieved without destroying anonymity and privacy online using anonymous credential systems, but it has to be designed that way from the ground up, and no one pushing age verification is interested in preserving privacy.

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cameronbrowntoday at 8:06 PM

I’m in the UK and we recently got the Online Safety Act. We failed, this legislation is very popular with voters and not getting rolled back. Those that dislike it use a VPN and aren’t interested in fighting. I’d say most of the public here is exhausted with cost of living and internet freedom just isn’t relevant to their voting habits.

I grew up around a lot of the hacker ethos, open internet, Information Wants To Be Free etc… feels like a part of my identity is being striped away by my government.

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wxwtoday at 4:14 PM

How are folks recommended to get involved? Contact your local Congress member? I feel this thread has a lot of passion but is missing concrete, actionable steps.

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forestotoday at 9:10 PM

The Electronic Frontier Foundation set up a resource page for this:

https://eff.org/age

Their guide:

https://www.eff.org/files/2026/04/09/condensed-age_verificat...

Unfortunately, their most prominent call to action doesn't seem to address the various state-specific and non-US legislation (focusing on KOSA instead). Here it is:

https://www.eff.org/pages/help-us-fight-back

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didgetmastertoday at 7:33 PM

I have long thought that all content (local and remote) should be properly labeled with metadata. Just like the cans of soup in the supermarket, you don't have to open it to find out if it has peanuts, lactose, or MSG in it; you should be able to filter data before accessing it.

You could define a set of 5 or six categories (nudity, sex, drugs, violence, etc.) and have a scale from 1 to 10 for each. Each content producer would rate each category according to defined criteria.

Then each user, or their parent, can set what their own acceptable level is. If you set your violence level at 4 then nothing level 5 or higher will load.

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retiredtoday at 4:36 PM

Age verification on Australian social media has loopholes. Underage influencers use an agency to manage their social media for them. So anyone with enough followers or money can continue using social media under the age of 16.

If you are going to implement age controls, you should implement a ban on underage influencers as well.

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tim333today at 5:29 PM

>age verification requires identity verification. Identity verification requires digital IDs. Digital IDs require everyone — not just children — to prove who they are before they can speak...

Not if it's done in a half arsed way. I'm in the UK and so far my age verification has involved doing a selfie with the webcam for Reddit. That's it. No one needing my name, ID number etc. (Apart from banks of course).

Really this is just the modern equivalent of putting the porn mags on the top shelf at the newsagent to stop the kids getting them. We don't need more.

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advaeltoday at 10:13 PM

Really the hill to die on is that the first amendment should preclude any content-based restrictions for anyone. If you believe children shouldn't be exposed to certain materials that's between you and your kids, and should not involve the government whatsoever

ericmaytoday at 5:44 PM

Just requiring it for social media companies is probably enough of a win to not have to pursue any further. We require age verification for sports betting and things like that, I'm not sure why we wouldn't do the same or some variation of that for other massively addicting products that we know as a matter of scientific study have a very bad impact on some number of kids.

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dev_l1x_betoday at 7:41 PM

We need a truly distributed point-to-point internet asap. Politicians going to do everything to limit free speech and free ideas in the name of protecting children while they already got all the powers to investigate and stop child abuse.

https://meshtastic.org/

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mixxittoday at 10:25 PM

Id rather we focused on human Vs bot verification given the state of social media influence right now

RRRAtoday at 8:39 PM

The irony of posting ethical social reflection on X though...

https://xcancel.com/GlennMeder/status/2049088498163216560

elrictoday at 8:38 PM

While we've been agonizing over Age Verification (real or planned), Greece has apparently introduced a ban on anonymity on social media. I'm not liking where the world is headed, but I have no idea how to push back against it.

raugustinustoday at 10:06 PM

Age verification requires identity verification once — but it doesn't require revealing your identity ever to a third party. With FHE (fully homomorphic encryption), identity data is encrypted on your device and never leaves it in plaintext. Not to the merchant, not to us as the verification service — nobody. We only compute on encrypted data and return a yes/no. I'm building this at identified.app

onetimeusenametoday at 7:27 PM

I've heard that we could use zero-knowledge ID proofs to show someone is of age without revealing any more but I don't think that's the plan and the demand for age restrictions doesn't feel like a grassroots effort of concerned parents. It feels like an NGO/bureaucrat driven law and I assume its purpose is to de-anonymize people on the internet.

znnajdlatoday at 7:09 PM

In the age of AI I think it’s only necessary and inevitable to implement some of kind of internet ID system to stop the massive onslaught of AI generated fraud, malicious hacking, and spam. If age verification is a Trojan horse to erase online anonymity, so be it, I see that as a worthy goal.

Humans are inherently social, and social networks are based on trust. Trust is primarily a function of reputation, peer pressure, and legal consequences. Reputation requires tying behavior to a stable identity. Peer pressure only works when you’re not anonymous. For there to be legal consequences for bad behavior, we must identify bad actors. I don’t see why anyone would want to remove any of this. To protect some freelance journalists in Iran?

Also I don’t think that the “pro privacy” activists really understand the scale and severity of harm being done to children through the internet. I as a programmer who makes my living on the internet, would gladly support the shutting down of the whole internet if it would save the life of a single precious child.

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brandonmenctoday at 9:32 PM

After reading these comments, I don't want to hear any of you suggest that kids shouldn't be allowed to have unrestricted access to smartphones or social media ever again.

How did you think this was going to be enforced?

odyssey7today at 9:48 PM

The question used to be: should we have online censorship?

Now, the question is: what should the implementation details of online censorship be?

bloppetoday at 7:26 PM

There are lots of ways to implement identity verification while preserving privacy. It's actually a super interesting engineering problem. Estonia has an excellent model to build on. The government can maintain a "traditional" ID system based on documents and in-person verification, and provide you with a device similar to a yubi-key or Bitcoin hardware wallet that could be used to share specific, cryptographically verifiable claims with third parties, like your age, or even just a boolean "over 18", but also your name or other information if you choose, with a way to control the access and audit which parties have verified which claims with the govt.

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bigbuppotoday at 8:50 PM

Since it is so harmful to let children use social media, why aren't parents being put in prison for abuse and neglect when they let their children use social media? Why should everyone else have to suffer when it's parents that should be punished?

(it's because it's not about protecting children)

dirtikititoday at 5:03 PM

And the piece nobody is even considering...

Responsible parents don't have separate OS accounts for their children.

mzmzmzmtoday at 6:30 PM

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motbus3today at 5:49 PM

It is not like a digital control for id verification could be used anyway to control a narrative in war times right?

ilovecake1984today at 6:02 PM

I’d wager most people want more censorship of the internet.

sailfasttoday at 7:06 PM

It’s not online age verification. It’s online identity verification.

Would you vote for that? Prove who you are to visit this website? Would you do it to access Hacker News? Your newspaper?

Didn’t think so.

unselect5917today at 9:08 PM

We simply don't need online age verification. It's not the state or private business' job to parent children. It's their parents job.

This is not only unnecessary, but will with 100% certainty lead to negative downstream affects, either via leaks, or the state being able to find people for things that aren't crimes once they're adults.

There's simply no good reason for it that outweighs the bad. But what it really boils down to is completely unnecessary.

gslepaktoday at 6:29 PM

Good: some commenters here realize it's an attack on privacy

Bad: some still entertain the idea that we should do age verification using some sort of crypto primitives

There is no reason for age verification at all.

I am from the goatse generation. Rotten.com. steakandcheese. Horrific stuff tbh, I mostly stayed away from it, and I didn't need a helicopter government to protect me from it.

The moment you accept the narrative that kids need to be protected from the Internet you have already lost.

You've already condemned those kids to a life of slavery. So much for protecting them.

What we need is not online verification, but a competent government that does its existing job well.

Who's been arrested over the Epstein files? Who is protecting those kids?

No one.

That same government wants to "protect" your kids by KYCing everyone.

Give me a break.

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kaboomshebangtoday at 5:50 PM

Kids will always find ways around regulation. Look at cigarettes, vapes, alcohol, weed; they will just get it from their dealers. Pornography? I expect something like: download a Torrent, get it from a classmate, share HardDrives in school, get it through an older brother.

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throwaway85825today at 9:50 PM

In other news Greece is banning online anonymity. The final form of age verification is here.

https://www.euractiv.com/news/greece-to-ban-anonymity-on-soc...

jlhawntoday at 8:26 PM

This seems hyperbolic as it's actually a long path between age verification to full digital identity tracking. But I agree that pushing the burden of verification to websites is ridiculous. Like the GDPR requirements where every webpage has an annoying consent modal, the verification and preferences should be controlled on the device you use to access these digital services. My browser should know and enforce my cookie preferences in a way that has a uniform user experience. Likewise, if I am a minor, my parent should provide me with a device (or profile on a device) which knows my age and can use that to inform online services of the age of the user rather than needing to go through a separate process for each service.

midtaketoday at 5:59 PM

I agree, doxxing yourself to some shady gray-market adjacent data broker is not acceptable as age verification, and age verification was safer using the honor system as before. But for some communities, especially social media communities, some kind of verification is better than none, otherwise what's to stop them from being overwhelmed with alt accounts that are used simply for harassment or other targeted objectives?

People should not be able to misrepresent themselves on the internet, it may have been safe in low volumes but it is scary now and will be outright dangerous as a modality in the hands of AI agents. If you think teen mental health is bad now, wait until social media campaign capabilities previously only available to nation states fall into the hands of ordinary school bullies.

Maybe age verification isn't the way to mitigate this obvious risk, but there has to be something that can be done to stop rampant sockpuppeting.

jrexiliustoday at 5:31 PM

I can't agree with this enough and yet I think the long term danger is masked by the current problems for the majority of voters. I'm not hopeful.

0xbadcafebeetoday at 8:22 PM

Reminder: Age Verification are not being passed to protect anyone but social media companies. But in addition, they will be used for a massive surveillance state. This is the DMCA of the 2020s, but far worse.

worthless-trashtoday at 6:38 PM

This whole problem is basically parents admitting they cant parent.

barnacstoday at 6:35 PM

Hopefully this will give yet another push towards decentralized, open source services. Platforms where noone and everyone is responsible and the state does not get to decide the rules.

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Havoctoday at 5:36 PM

I have a fair bit of fatalism on this one.

Saw it with the UK laws. It just gets rammed through. Whether it’s ignorance, malice, hidden force, a desire for surveillance state, genuine concern for children - doesn’t matter, the forces in favour are substantially more and seemingly motivated to try over and over until it sticks.

Much like brexit or for that matter trump reelection I just don’t have much faith in wisdom of the democratic collective consensus anymore and I don’t think it’ll get any better in an AI misinformation echo chamber world. Onwards into dystopia

Exceeding gloomy take I know

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Ritewuttoday at 5:12 PM

Just a reminder that the YC funds many of the companies pushing these laws and building the surveillance state.

giantg2today at 5:27 PM

So many pieces of law are flawed today, and the reason why should be concerning to all.

I find it disgusting that most laws today are based on creating a perfect world instead of addressing harms in the least intrusive way. There is no balancing of interests, even when they state that there are. Every side complains about the others and potential future abuses, except when it is their plan. Nobody tries to design the law with a devil's advocate perspective to make as effective as reasonably possible (not perfect!) while limiting overreach.

The real problem is the pursuit of perfection. A perfect world does not exist, nor will it ever (laws of nature, physics, etc). One person's view of perfect is not the same as another's. We've lost the capacity for legislative empathy through are impatience and self importance. It's no longer about restricting government and providing people with rights. It's about how we can use government to shove the desires of a majority or plurality onto the total population.

There are ways to do age verification with reasonable anonymity, but they aren't perfect and can create underground markets (see gaming in China). At a certain point, we need to step back and put the responsibilities where they belong - with parents, instead of causing massive negative externalities on everyone else.

Yeah, yeah, but the children...

k33ntoday at 9:20 PM

Enjoy dying on that hill then because without mandatory ID for potentially harmful services like social media, we will continue to descend further into the brainrot that many of you suffer from today.

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baxtrtoday at 4:47 PM

Ok, maybe that’s a silly thought, but… couldn’t this be provided by Apple/Google anonymously?

When you set up kids devices in your family they ask you to provide the birthday anyway.

I’m keen to see the arguments against this.

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crazygringotoday at 7:06 PM

I'm not a fan of online age verification, but this is completely absurd:

> Every website. Every platform. Every app. Every service. Your children will never know what it was like to think freely online. They will never explore ideas anonymously. They will never question authority without it being logged in their permanent profile. They will never speak freely without fear that every word will be used...

No. Nobody's proposing you need to verify your identity to read articles on the New York Times or Wikipedia or political blogs. And nobody is proposing you need to verify your identity to leave comments on a news article or blog post. And any proposed law around that would run into massive first-amendment constitutional hurdles. It would be struck down easily.

There's always going to be a spectrum of websites that range from open and anonymous (like news and political discussion) to strongly identity-verified (like online banking). I don't like online age verification for particular sites, but at the same time I think it's completely misleading to see it as this slippery slope to a world where anonymous speech no longer exists.

We can have reasoned arguments around how people's usage of sites is tracked and how to prevent that, without making this about free speech and "the hill to die on".

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seydortoday at 5:44 PM

Usually Fear is the realm of governments. Modern republics are basically legitimized around the fears of something terrible happening, it can be communism, narcotics, the ozone hole, corona virus, terrorists, immigration, globalization, unrecycled waste or greenhouse effect.

Private entities being frontrunners in AI Fear either means that these companies have too much unchecked power or that they have are covert instruments of governments.

yawniektoday at 5:31 PM

ironically i think we need more social and stronger local social networks that have high identity validation and are "safe" spaces for the plebs. so that the perceived "threat level" from the free internet gets lower. basically hide the real internet a bit behind a small rock. its a slippery slope but it might be the better strategy unless some democratic societies achieve to put more modern "freedom guarantees" into their consitution.

aalaeetoday at 6:15 PM

For a forum that supposedly consists of hackers and tech-savvy people, this number of comments supporting age verification is concerning.

The author has said a lot about what kind of future awaits with mass surveillance and AI, but I believe it’s not enough. Technofascism Is not that far away.

anonym29today at 4:16 PM

It's worth pointing out that full digital identity verification ("doxxing" yourself to an untrustworthy, unauditable, legally unconstrained private company) is NOT the only way to verify adulthood. We have had a system in place which enables adulthood validation without enabling digital surveillance infrastructure, with a degree of false negative risk that society has deemed acceptable for nearly 100 years now. This idea is not my own, but I'm happy to share a reasonable proposal for it.

The Cashier Standard – Age Verification Without Surveillance

https://news.ycombinator.com/item?id=47809795

https://claude.ai/public/artifacts/7fe74381-a683-4f49-9c2b-1...

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131hntoday at 6:49 PM

There’s age verification when you buy a gun. Not on a gun handle.

Kids should not be able/allowed to buy/use devices that are dangerous for them

But the device itself should not care at the fallacious idea “it might be able to”

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